Quote Think of it! We could have gone on longing for...

“Think of it! We could have gone on longing for one another and pretending not to notice forever. This obsession with dignity can ruin your life if you let it.” - Mary Ann Shaffer

Decryption of quote

Think of it! Imagine the countless missed opportunities, the unspoken words, the hidden feelings that could have remained buried forever. We could have continued to yearn for each other in silence, pretending that our hearts were not entwined, all in the name of preserving our pride.

This obsession with dignity can be a double-edged sword. On one hand, it can protect us from humiliation and vulnerability. It can shield us from the pain of rejection and disappointment. But on the other hand, it can also prevent us from experiencing the depth of human connection and the richness of emotional intimacy.

Can ruin your life if you let it. How many times have we held back our true feelings out of fear of appearing too eager or too vulnerable? How many relationships have withered away because we were too proud to admit our true desires and needs?

It is a reminder that sometimes, it is okay to let go of our need for control and perfection. It is okay to be messy, to be raw, to be unguarded. It is okay to show our true selves, flaws and all, without fear of judgment or rejection.

Life is too short to waste on pretense and facade. It is too precious to be spent in a constant state of longing and denial. It is in our moments of vulnerability and authenticity that we truly connect with others and with ourselves.

So let go of your obsession with dignity. Embrace your imperfections, your desires, your emotions. Allow yourself to be seen, to be heard, to be loved for who you truly are. For in the end, it is our authenticity that brings us closer to others and to the essence of life itself.

Do not let pride stand in the way of your happiness and fulfillment. Do not let fear of vulnerability rob you of the joy of genuine connection. Embrace your humanity, with all its complexities and contradictions, and watch as your relationships deepen and your heart expands.

For in the end, it is not our facade of dignity that defines us, but our capacity for love, empathy, and compassion. It is in our moments of vulnerability and authenticity that we truly shine and make a meaningful impact on the world around us.

So let go of your fears and embrace the beauty of being truly, unapologetically yourself. Let go of the need to hide behind a mask of dignity and allow your true essence to shine through. For it is in our moments of raw authenticity that we find true freedom and connection.




dignity love

Quotes to Explore


 inspirational quotes - Image for quote : There's nothing like deep breaths after laughing that hard. Nothing in the world like a sore stomach for the right reasons.

There's nothing like deep breaths after laughing that hard. Nothing in the world like a sore stomach for the right reasons.

Stephen Chbosky

 inspirational quotes - Image for quote : No matter how small you start, always dream big.

No matter how small you start, always dream big.

Stephen Richards

 inspirational quotes - Image for quote : The only time you fail is when you fall down and stay down.

The only time you fail is when you fall down and stay down.

Stephen Richards

 inspirational quotes - Image for quote : Our way of thinking creates good or bad outcomes.

Our way of thinking creates good or bad outcomes.

Stephen Richards

 inspirational quotes - Image for quote : Many people think excitement is happiness.... But when you are excited you are not peaceful. True happiness is based on peace.

Many people think excitement is happiness.... But when you are excited you are not peaceful. True happiness is based on peace.

Thich Nhat Hanh

 inspirational quotes - Image for quote : Do the best you can, and don't take life too serious.

Do the best you can, and don't take life too serious.

Will Rogers