Quote I'd found out that if you pushed people away...

"I'd found out that if you pushed people away hard enough, they tended to go."

Have you ever felt the urge to distance yourself from others, to create a barrier between yourself and those around you? It's a common defense mechanism, a way to protect yourself from potential hurt or disappointment. But what we often fail to realize is that by pushing people away, we are actually pushing them out of our lives altogether.

When we build walls around ourselves, when we shut others out, we are ultimately isolating ourselves from the love, support, and connection that we need to thrive. We may think that we are protecting ourselves, but in reality, we are only hurting ourselves in the long run.

People are not mind readers. They cannot always understand why we are pushing them away or what we are going through. And so, when we push them away, they may interpret it as a sign that we no longer want them in our lives. They may feel hurt, rejected, and confused, and eventually, they may decide to leave.

It's a sad truth, but it's a reality that many of us have experienced at some point in our lives. We push people away in an attempt to protect ourselves, only to realize too late that we have pushed them out of our lives completely.

So, the next time you feel the urge to push someone away, take a moment to pause and reflect on why you are doing so. Are you truly protecting yourself, or are you inadvertently pushing away someone who cares about you and wants to be there for you?

Remember, vulnerability is not a weakness. Opening up to others, allowing yourself to be seen and heard, is a courageous act that can lead to deeper connections and more meaningful relationships.

Instead of pushing people away, try pulling them closer. Let them in, share your thoughts and feelings, and allow yourself to be supported and loved. You may be surprised at how much richer your life becomes when you let others in.

So, let go of the fear, the need to protect yourself at all costs. Embrace vulnerability, embrace connection, and watch as your relationships flourish and grow stronger than ever before.