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“Absence is to love what wind is to fire; it extinguishes the small, it inflames the great.” - Roger de Rabutin de Bussy

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Absence is to love what wind is to fire; it extinguishes the small, it inflames the great.

Imagine love as a flame, burning brightly in the heart. When two people are together, their love is like a fire being fed by the warmth of their presence. But when one is absent, it's like a gust of wind blowing through the flames.

For a small flame, the absence of love can easily extinguish it, leaving only embers behind. But for a great love, the absence only serves to fan the flames, making them burn even brighter and stronger.

It's in the moments of separation that the true depth of love is revealed. The small flames may flicker and fade, unable to withstand the absence, but the great flames will roar and blaze, fueled by the longing and passion that grows in the void.

Just as wind can either snuff out a weak fire or make a strong fire burn even hotter, absence can either weaken a shallow love or strengthen a profound love.

So, if you find yourself missing someone, take comfort in the fact that their absence is a testament to the strength of your love. It's a sign that what you share is not just a fleeting spark, but a powerful and enduring flame.

Let the absence be a reminder of the depth of your connection, a fuel that feeds the fire of your love and keeps it burning bright, no matter the distance between you.

For in the absence of love, the true nature of your feelings will be revealed. And if your love is great, it will only grow stronger in the face of separation.




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