Quote Oh, it's always the same,' she sighed, 'if you...

“Oh, it's always the same,' she sighed, 'if you want men to behave well to you, you must be beastly to them; if you treat them decently they make you suffer for it.” - W. Somerset Maugham

Decryption of quote

Oh, it's always the same,' she sighed, as she reflected on the complexities of human relationships. How often do we find ourselves caught in this dilemma, where our kindness is taken for granted and our decency is met with betrayal?

She pondered the irony of it all - the notion that in order to elicit good behavior from others, one must sometimes resort to harshness and cruelty. It seemed like a cruel twist of fate, a never-ending cycle of hurt and disappointment.

But as she delved deeper into the meaning behind these words, she began to see a glimmer of hope. Perhaps, she thought, the key lies not in being beastly or decent, but in finding a balance between the two.

For it is true that some may take advantage of our kindness, but it is also true that others may appreciate and reciprocate it. It is a delicate dance, a fine line to walk, but one that is worth the effort.

She realized that relationships are not always easy, but they are always worth fighting for. And sometimes, it is through the challenges and struggles that we truly learn and grow.

So, she made a promise to herself - to continue to treat others with kindness and decency, even if it meant risking being hurt. For in the end, it is not about how others treat us, but about how we choose to treat them.

And as she embraced this philosophy, she felt a sense of empowerment and liberation. No longer would she be bound by the fear of being hurt or betrayed, but instead, she would be guided by her own compassion and integrity.

For in the end, she knew that true strength lies not in being beastly or decent, but in being true to oneself and to others. And with that realization, she felt a renewed sense of purpose and clarity in her relationships.




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