Quote I used to loathe ambivalence; now I adore it....

“I used to loathe ambivalence; now I adore it. Ambivalence is my new best friend.” - Suzanne Finnamore

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Ambivalence used to be a source of frustration for me, a feeling of being stuck in the middle with no clear direction. It was like standing at a crossroads, unsure of which path to take. I would often find myself torn between conflicting emotions and unable to make a decision.

But now, ambivalence has taken on a new meaning for me. It is no longer a source of confusion, but rather a source of strength. It allows me to see things from multiple perspectives and embrace the complexity of life. Instead of seeing it as a weakness, I now see it as a gift.

Embracing ambivalence has opened up a world of possibilities for me. It has allowed me to break free from the constraints of black-and-white thinking and embrace the shades of gray. I no longer feel the need to rush to a decision, but instead, I can sit with my feelings and allow them to unfold naturally.

Through ambivalence, I have learned to appreciate the beauty of uncertainty. It is in those moments of not knowing that we have the opportunity to grow and evolve. It is a reminder that life is not always clear-cut, and that is okay.

Ambivalence has become my new best friend, guiding me through the ups and downs of life with grace and ease. It has taught me to be patient with myself and others, knowing that we are all complex beings with conflicting emotions. It has allowed me to find peace in the midst of chaos.

So, if you find yourself feeling torn between two conflicting emotions, remember that ambivalence is not something to be feared, but something to be embraced. It is a reminder that we are human, with a range of emotions that make us who we are. Embrace the uncertainty, and you may just find that ambivalence becomes your greatest ally.




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